A Not So Happy Ending

We broke up on the 15th.



Fin.

:(

Valent... Schmalentines Day

I never really liked Valentines Day aka Vday for the rest of this blog.
I mean, regardless the relationship, Vday never went right. Something always went wrong... a fight, car trouble, work, breaking up before the holiday. SOMETHING, not good, always happened.

So, I am looking at Vday, this year, with some trepidation.

Re-consider

I thought this blog would be a good idea.
I thought it would be some kind of insightful, charming, useful chunk of blogosphere.
Now I'm not so sure...

Admittedly, I don't know if I am using it to the best capacity. I mean, if I was blogging about just me... I'd have many more entries. But seeing how there is another person in play... that is just an angle I am not used to having. BUT I have been trying.

I thought this would be Cari Bradshaw with more depth. But the subject matter is not sex and the single gal. Nor is it so tug of war of emotions with a man who was constantly into but not so into maybe into her.
NO.
This is about two people, basically normal people, who are in a relationship and who navigate those daily landmines that people in relationships cross. This was meant to document or track how we succeeded (or failed). Because, I don't know, I thought we were successful, smart and possibly an example for people or... something.

I mean, I know, thus far in our relationship we are successful. A testament that not every fight is a knockdown drag out, or the end all be all of the relationship. That distance (even if it is only about an hour) can be both a blessing and a curse.

But I don't feel that this writing. This project, for me, is successful.
I mean, maybe there are 10000s of people reading this relating to this.

SO.
For now.
This blog is taking a break.
I will be reconsidering content...

Fitting Mood

New Year

We rang in the New Year together.

*girl-y giggles and smiles*

It was a wonderful surprise that resulted in a LOT of empty cider cans...